Local Sg chinese man seeking married lady above 40 - Ang Mo Kio

Nothing starts with a lie. I am married, local Sg chinese man 1.73m,70kg. I have a professional job, drive a decent car, works Mon to Fri just like most of you. i am an  introvert most of the time unless the topic interest me. My hobby inclides gym, jogging swimming, playing music, painting and repairing things around the house. My look is above average, gym fit, fair with dimples.and double eyelid, baby face, at some angle,.my friend said I look like Andy Lau, haha.

I had been married.for more than 20years, happy lovely.warm family. Nothing beats the feeling of coming home to a complete home.
I am.sure you are married.too, for many years,.and you would understand why am i here. There is no family issue at home, everything is in order although not perfect. But bedtime intimacy had not been as exciting as before. Although both of us tried to spice it up again, it.just aint working, everything seems drying up. You know what I mean. No thrill, its just like a drill.

I am hoping to meet a lady, preferably married, with kids and a happy home. She is also thinking of the same thing as me.

Truth to be told, research had shown that not only men flirt, 37% of women had affairs after married. The age group of women most vulnerable to affairs are 40 and above. Well I am not here to entice any lady to begin flirting.

But why is it above 40? There are many contributing factors that leads to women starting to engage activities outside. Women needs constant assurance of love, care and concern. After being married for so many years, they start to feel neglected at home, unappreciated and feels out of love. Why is it so? Women are not excitement seeker, they merely needed somebody to talk to, someone whom they can confide in, someone who will listen to them, someone to have dinner together, someone who can shower her with love, care and concern. And the major scientific reason why lady above 40 starts looking for male partner outside is their body hormonal changes. At age 40 and above, menopause symptoms starts slowly to creep in. Male hormones may be slightly higher and it will cause more hairy skin, bad temper, impatient and higher sex urge.

On the other hand, there is also another group of lady who has very loving husband and family members. But they do have affairs. Why is it so?  Mostly they were married to their first boyfriend. They had not yet been touched by any other men. As they gets older around 40, their life become monotonous and their libido increase and fantasy kicks in. They start to imagine how it feels like with another man. But why libido increase at 40? Well, because manhood starts to deteriorate and they crave for more...

Many stories to share with you, click.reply.to this ads and we can talk more about married women and their conquest.

Back to my agenda. I am hoping to meet a lady preferrably married or divorced, sg or malaysian chinese, age abv 40. Below 40,.please do not reply.

Lets be Friend first, chat to know more about each other. No PRC, maid, young girls,
sugardad.

I hope you would agree, be with someone who you don’t have to hide from, in any way. Whether it’s your morning face before you’ve put your makeup on, an embarrassing story to tell about something that happened on your way home, or an ambition you’ve had since you were six... Remember , a lover doesn’t discourage your growth. Make sure you end up with someone who knows all of it and still loves you. A person you can tell your life to is a person worth spending time or a life with.

In Sg, many of us are busy with work, kids, house chores, and family issues. Many married couples had  inevitably forgotten their next half. Although lying in bed next to each other, their minds are somewhere far away. The attraction and intimacy had long expired. Some tried to spice up their love, but usually it doesn't work as intended. Some dont even allowed their next half to touch them. Some dont even hold hands anymore. Its sad, but its the truth. When did your hubby hald your hand when you both went shopping?

Facing problems at home and having to deal with them by yourself is tough. Many endure with it because of their kids. Feeling unappreciated and unsatisfied at home are the main cause women look elsewhere for love and happiness. Many women nowsaday are highly educated and financially independent, they can easily walk out of the home. But why some chose to stay amd remain silent. Its all because of the family. Dont be afraid to be strong, being strong is your only hope for better life.

Is yout daily life at home more awkward then sitting in a MRT. Many couples faces this problem. The tension at home is almost unbearbale. There is no communication at all, you do your things, i do my own things, both also cant see eyey to eye, the minunte one start to talk, a quarrel will soon follow. Even texting a message to each other will start a fire. I Block you, you block me in watsapp, telegram, wechat. Once a while throw sarcastic remarks on each other. Sound so familiar right?  And do you know what causes all these hatred and anger? It had been too long. Conflicts was not resolved, both did not talk and settle it. Dissatisfaction is another main reason. Disrespect is also another main culprit. You are not alone, but you just could not walk out of the house. You have to stay for some reasons. And silently, you endure and cry in pain.


Say hi to me, we can talk more about your problem. Its easier to talk to someone you dont know than to someone you know. Your secret may not be safe with them. Keeping it all to yourself is also not a healthy solution.

I bet you had been using dating apps like Dating, Skout, Meet Me etx. There are many social media and dating app but most of them I tried are overseas love scammers, sweet young girls looking for sugardad, domestic helpers and porn. Thats why i decide to write here and let fate decide  a soulmate for me. I gurantee i am not an old uncle.with a beer belly. I am not a hit and run, am not looking for  one night stand. I am looking for a long term, trustworthy and respectful relationship. It has  to be discreet and confidential.

If in future we were to meet, i will fetch you from office or any place safe, and.will also send you home safely and on time. All expenses will be paid by me. We can go for beer, wine and dinner. But i am just hoping she stays somewhere in north east sk punggol amk hougang serangoon thomson tpy as i am more familiar in these areas. We shall plan ahead and meet, sometime afterwork, sometime take a half day leave or even short lunch meet up. Definitely no nuisance messages or call when you are at home.

Just say a hi, and this ads will be deleted once we are a good match..Follow your heart, i had already made the first move for you, you just need to click contact and leave me a reply. You will definitely receive my reply.

Small little step to a bigger dream. Dream will forever be a dream if there aint any action taken. Do what you love, do what you enjoy and pamper yourself with what you deserve. After all, life is already half over, do you still want to wait and see,.wait for the right person to save you, wait for the right moment and spend the next half of your life trapped in the same place?

Open your mind and release your soul, step out and meet new people, learn new things and filled yourself with all the things that you had missed out. Learn to letbgo, plan forward and let the adventure begin. Say hi and i will reply really fast.

No question ask about your decision, its your life, you have a choice, you are free to meet anyone. No obligation even if you reply to this ads. Its a genuine ads with a real person behind, not a robot or a scammer. A sincere person, upfront and no lies.

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty. Mother Teresa.

Thanks for reading everything. Click contact and leave me a standard reply or just say a Hi, i will reply you really fast.